I dont appreciate being denigrated by you, especially for something you perceive I have done wrong.

I have spoken to both Wayne and Ben and neither of them have said that I have done anything wrong.

I originally started writing a rebuff to all the misinformation you wrote but decided against it, because I feel you may not handle it constructivley and you may just use it to come back at me, again.

You may not appreciate that by you not attending the mens table, and recommending that others do the same, is the reason the mens table could be 'destroyed', not me.

If you want to discuss this in person, I will be at the next mens table meetings.

Andrews text in quotes

Hi all,

“Chris has permanently left the Menstable due to Geoff”.

No proof it is because of me

“When Goeff's email arrived I put it in the Junk pile.”

If so how and why are you replying

“Knowing it would only be an AI generated argument with no responsibility taken at all”

I did not generate it with AI and you have no way of proving it was generated with AI.

“This is his character.”

As the previous statements are false they cannot be objectively used to assess my character.

“Geoff's behaviour caused Chris to leave the Menstable permanently.”

This is a repeat of a previous statement that has no proof of being correct.

“Geoff's behaviour caused us all to walk out in disgust.”

You did not walk out. You briefly spoke to me. I did not respond to what you said. Unless you have spoken to the other 2 that left, you do no why they left. It was the end of the meeting.

“Chris was a very good table member and I can easily see why he left. I pointed to this high probability in my email to Wayne when reporting the incident.”

This has now changed from what comes across as definite, to high probability. Still with no evidence to back it up.

“If a table walks out on anyone, any normal person would realise they behaved unacceptably and apologise.”

A table did not walk out. Two people left. You are assuming I'm normal. I'm not.

“Geoff had a 2nd perfect opportunity to apologise the next day on Whatsapp, but continued his meaningless time wasting tirade.”

I did not see your post on the next day on Whatsapp. I did not see it until the day of the next meeting. Which was about a month later. Neither did I reply to it.

I did not write an email until Sunday, August 9, 2026 20:20 as is time stamped on the email

“Then Geoff sent an audio clip he claims was in error. I disbelieve that entirely. Geoff has used whatsapp for some time and has never made any computing error before, he spends much time online. That clip sounded like a door closing, on me. This is how keyboard warriors 'win' arguments .”

I rarely use Whatsapp. I have made numerous computer errors before. Im not perfect. No one is. You have no idea how much time I spend online.

If you want to believe that the sound was a door closing on you, I am not willing to try and change your belief. I did not create a sound recording to win an argument

“Geoff showed no respect for any other man there and no regard for a Table .”

If you believe so, thats your opinion It is not what I believe.

“Geoff repeatedly breached normal communication protocols for normal people, let alone the culture of a Menstable.”

Specifically what words did I say, such that you feel, that to be that case?

“Geoff was there just to win and take from the table. Geoff stole our time and our night.”

What did I win? What did I take? Of the total time of the meeting how much did I steal?

“Geoffs email shows his attitude , win at all costs, accept no blame.”

If you had read this You may understand my part misunderstanding of what a Mens Table is about. I accept to I did not understand that.

“This is destructive to any Table. It is damaging to any relationship”

I accept that it is your believe, but that does make it true. I is highly subjective.

“Geoff is unsuited to any table. Noone will ever get a full Table benefit with Geoff there.”

Same, a belief that is subjective

“As an antithesis, this is a portion of a recent communication I have with another table member ' ……… The therapy of the table I shall miss. My last night in February coming clean with my relationship split did do wonders for me. The theory behind this movement is very real regarding men’s mental health is very real. Evan as I type this out to you, I feel a sense of peacefulness. Do not worry about me. I have options………….. . There are far needier men out there that need more immediate attention than me. Please place your worthy attentions to the table. …………… ' This is what a healthy table produces.”

Just because a table a table does not produce such,does not mean it's unhealthy.

“Everyone walking out in disgust and a very good member leaving permanently is what Geoff created.”

No one has communicated to me that EVERONE walked out in disgust. If you believe I created that, I'm not going to argue that point, other that to say I disagree with it.

“It's a pity, I was going to do a marketing sweep for MensTable and had found 2 very good new avenues. I will not be doing that now as any new members might go to Geoffs table. I will not put my name to that outcome.”

Is it physically me you are upset about or what you perceive I have done? What have I done that makes you feel that way?

“I recently ran a marketing blitz for another club I belong to. The beginners jumped from 8 to 34. They have never has such numbers before. That was only my first brush, I've got a few more ideas for them.”

You used the term another club. You seem to think the mens table is a club. I don't think you understand that it is not a club. And the implications of that.

Regards Andy

An observation on my part is that is that Andrew is more interested in the institution of the table than what it stands for

Andrew has told the table he had been banned from a social media. Even though I have previously used social media extensively I have never been banned from it